soft to play with

Raw confidence in imperfect skin.
digital guides for pleasure, self-touch and body reclamation. this isn't about body love, this is about wanting more while still living in the skin you have now.
pleasure doesn't wait for perfection. neither should you.

After big weight loss, I thought I'd finally feel sexy. I didn't. Loose skin, numbness, shame - I felt less like myself than ever.I created Soft to play with because I needed a space where sensuality wasn't performative, and sex didn't mean pretending. I wanted to feel real, raw and in my body again.Now I help others do the same. I create guides and rituals for people navigating shame, touch and sexuality in a body that's changed - whether by weight loss, trauma or time.You don't have to wait until you look different to feel different. You can start now. I did. And it changed everything.

My tools help you come back to yourself - slowly, softly, fully.- PDF guides with prompts, rituals and reflection exercises. Exploring safely what truly excites you.- Self-pleasure practices that won't feel performative.- Body-trusting sensuality - no weight loss goals, no shame.- Kink-friendly, fetish-inclusive content that lets you explore power, play, and pleasure without shame.- Photo sets & visual cues for inspiration & curiosity.- Monthly support trough membership-style drops.This isn't about fixing. It's about reclaiming. Your sensuality is already yours. You just need permission to feel it again.

You'll love this if you've ever:- Felt disconnected from your body after weight loss, trauma or shame.- Wanted to explore your sexuality without performance pressure.- Craved slow, sensual self-touch but didn't know where to start.- Felt curious about kink, fetish or power play – but wanted to explore on your own terms.- Hoped to feel sexy again - in the body you have right now.

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